Idealistic

Is it wrong to be idealistic? Is it wrong to chase the moon? I read some stupid motivational poster one time that said something like, "Keep reaching for the moon. Even if you do not make it, you will land among the stars." Or some such crap.

I was brought up short today by a friend who basically attacked my choice to pursue happiness, to chase my dreams. It was a rude awakening, and I was taken back by it. Then I realized something. These people who have left me on the periphery of their lives are not comfortable or pleased with the changes I am undergoing. It began with my children, and has radiated outwards to encompass family and friends alike.

"You can't do it."

"That's not you."

"You aren't that sort of person."

"Quit talking crazy talk."

"You are just going to get hurt."

These are all things that have actually been said to me in the past month. Dire warnings about my choices, my plans, my reality. Except, I am living in my reality. I am trying to pursue happiness, and dammit I AM happy, except when people try to pull me down.

You know what? We get hurt. That is a human experience. We take chances, and yes, sometimes we lose. But, scared and all as I may be in moments, I would rather be a fool chasing my dreams than a fool standing still. So look out world ... here I come!!!!! *L*