I was informed that I would have more success with men if I played hard to get. Let's ignore the fact that I am uncertain exactly what that means, and focus on the part I DO get .... "playing". I do not waste my time with games. If I like someone I try my best to let them know that I do. Apparently this is a STUPID thing for me to do.
Am I back in elementary school? WTF? If I like a guy, I should NOT want to spend time with him? I should waste the free time and precious energy I have that is not sucked up by work, the wee lass, and family, all for the sake of making myself "less available and therefore infinitely more attractive"?
The son told me that people take for granted than which is freely given, yet treasure that which they must work for. Okay but here is the problem ... relationships are hard enough without throwing in the games. I do not want to make my partner feel like he has to work to hold my attention or affection. JFC.
No wonder I do not have much success in getting laid. *sigh*
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